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Saying “No” With Courage And Care: Responding To Requests And Demands

Part of the Level 2 Intermediate Online Training Programme

By: Cath Burke

AUDIENCE: intermediate

Saturday, May 18, 2024 9:30 AM —
Sunday, May 19, 2024 11:30 AM
English
Timezone: Europe/London

Would you like to find a way of saying an empowered "No" whilst maintaining your relationships with others? Would you love to have access to more choice in your life when requests or demands come your way?

Most of us have been educated to stifle our “No", believing we will hurt others or be abandoned, so we end up going along with things when we don’t really want to. Or instead bark out a "No!" like a sergeant major, even if we want to say, "Yes," had we been asked differently.  Both these reactions come at a cost to our relationships.

Nonviolent Communication helps us reach beneath the surface of our "No" to discover a creative and dynamic way of responding with courage and care in any moment.

On this day you’ll be supported to take away skills to:

  • say “No” with courage and care
  • transcend reactivity and develop a sense of inner space and choice
  • listen to your body when experiencing resistance to what someone wants you to do

“Of all the training in which I’ve ever participated, this is up there as one of the absolute best - I thoroughly, thoroughly recommend it. Everything about it was extremely helpful in enabling me to really feel able to say ‘no’ with courage and care. Three days later and I’ve already put what I’ve learnt into practice resulting in exactly the response I’d been hoping for.”
— Jo W, London

50 minutes of movement and conscious dance

The day will include an invitation to explore this theme somatically in a light-hearted way through about 50 minutes of movement and dance. Yep, moving to music online: it’s surprisingly powerful. We’ll also play with asking for what you want and being ok receiving a “No”. If you've never tried 'conscious dance' before you are especially welcome. No experience is necessary - you cannot do it wrong! And all ages, body shapes and fitness levels are welcome too

“This week I said no in a situation that I would not have had the presence of mind or courage to do before the workshop. I took time to think it through, decided my needs are important right now and went back to the person to say no, and nicely.”
— Kristina, London

Pre-requisite


This event is for those who want to deepen their understanding and experience of NVC in theory and practice.   A pre-requisite is that you will have completed a 12 hour Level 1 Foundation training in NVC, or equivalent and want to integrate and embody NVC more fully in your life. This will ensure a common foundation for Level 2 / Intermediate engagement and practice.

Cost


Individual rates (if you are paying for the training from your own pocket):
If you earn less than £20,000 before tax:  £80
If you earn between £20,000 - £30,000 before tax:  £110
If you earn between £30,000 - £45,000 before tax:  £140
If you earn more than £45,000 before tax: £175
I am willing to dialogue with you if these prices would prevent you from coming. Please contact me here.

Organisational rates (if your employer is paying for your place on the training)
Small Charity rate:  £125 (If you work for a charity with fewer than 15 employees).
Public sector / Large Charity rate:  £150 (If you work for a public sector organisation, such as a local council or the NHS, or a charity with more than 15 employees).
Private sector rate:  £185 (If you work for a profit making company).
Concessions available: if any of the above prices would prevent you from coming, please contact me

The Level 2 Intermediate Training Programme


This is one of 12 weekend trainings offered over the course of a year by a collaborative group of London-based CNVC Certified Trainers working together to offer you clear learning and progression options to suit you. We are committed to creating community and a supportive network for those learning, living and sharing NVC in London. Many of our trainings are currently online, so if you live outside of London, you are welcome to participate. Follow this link to discover more

“I was very nervous about combining dance with NVC, and bringing my personal practice out into a group setting. I finished the session not only feeling more confident, peaceful and alive than I could have imagined, but also with a number of useful new tools that I feel excited to use and develop further.”
— Chris, London

Curious About Why I Include Movement & Dance In An NVC Workshop? Find Out More>>>

 

TRAINING FOCUS:

  • Conflict Resolution
  • General
  • Mind-Body-Spirit

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